5 Signs That You Are Offended:(By stanley Mez)
1. Engaging in slanderous, negative, or toxic conversations about people or situations.
2. Recalling negative or hurtful events with crystal clarity (this is also known as memory recall)
3. Twisting or distorting scriptures to justify negative emotions or anger towards others (i.e "I discern that their spirit isn't right!")
4. Engaging in avoidance or other isolating behavior in an effort to reject or retaliate against the person who hurt you. This is also referred to as "cutting people off."
5. Building a case in your mind against the person(s) who rejected or hurt you. Becoming defensive when the said offender is mentioned, or crafting a self narrative that accuses others and exonerates self.
譯：《五種被冒犯的徵兆》
1. 投入於誹謗、負面、狠毒的對話，是針對於他人或任何處境
2. 清楚的回憶起負面或傷害的事件(這也稱為記憶回朔)
3. 扭曲或曲解經文，以此合法化對他人的負面情緒或憤怒(例如：我分辨出他們的靈是不對的)
4. 行出逃避或其他孤立的行為，是為了拒絕或報復傷害你的人，這也是被認知為"與人切斷關係"
5.腦海裡想像對付曾經拒絕或傷害你的人。 當提到冒犯你的人即變為自我防禦，或編造自白控告他人使自己免受指控。
1. 投入於誹謗、負面、狠毒的對話，是針對於他人或任何處境
2. 清楚的回憶起負面或傷害的事件(這也稱為記憶回朔)
3. 扭曲或曲解經文，以此合法化對他人的負面情緒或憤怒(例如：我分辨出他們的靈是不對的)
4. 行出逃避或其他孤立的行為，是為了拒絕或報復傷害你的人，這也是被認知為"與人切斷關係"
5.腦海裡想像對付曾經拒絕或傷害你的人。 當提到冒犯你的人即變為自我防禦，或編造自白控告他人使自己免受指控。
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